Outlets -- Are They Really Worth It?

This informative Buzzfeed article is what prompted my curiosity into all things cheap. Cheap is a dirty word.  It is an undesirable personality trait and implies a lesser quality of whatever is under discussion, such as clothing or, heaven forbid, meat. Ewwww. It also means a deal to some, and the ability to boast about not being taken for a fool for overspending; a situation which to me begs the question that couldn't the opposite be true? If it is possible to foolishly overspend on something under the guise of quality, then it must be possible to shrewdly spend less than most people because you found a great deal and saved money.

Finding a great deal and knowing a great deal are two very different things however.  Finding a great deal is easy because things go on sale all the time: weekly, monthly, seasonally, and yearly, depending on the product. Steak for $4.99/lb this week at the grocery store? Yes please! A cashmere sweater for $50 because it's end-of-season? I'll take two! Heck, watch television around Christmas time and you'll even find that Mercedes Benz are on sale. But when you find something at a discounted price, have you found a deal or are you really just being duped into thinking you have?

There are two possible outcomes for a bargain hunting scenario and clearly the combination of finding a deal and knowing what you're purchasing is the best possible one.  I'm inclined to think that the seasonal incentives at Mercedes Benz are finding and knowing a good deal as Mercedes does not produce two lines of cars, one for the dealerships constructed of the best and only the best, and one for the outlets made from low quality steel and faulty wiring. The second scenario of finding a deal and being so happy by the low price that price and price alone are the deciding factor in your purchase is a scenario to be avoided because there is a huge potential that you may have really wasted money on a poorly made piece of junk that will fall apart in a year. Or some piece of gnarly meat. $4.99/lb? What did they feed that cow? Think about it.

Knowing what you're buying puts the purchasing power back into your hands and takes it away from the seller because the retailer no longer has the ability to influence your purchase based solely on price. Discount retailers, whether they are a low price food store, an outlet or factory store, a fast fashion store, or a dollar store, all make money by selling as much product as they can by offering their wares at a prices so low people do not have a reason to walk away without buying something.  Also, retailers bank on their name to sell their items and the reputation that label carries. Take the Gap for example. The Gap makes stylish and good quality clothing and they are sold for a decent price, nothing too high to make it unaffordable, but not too low to indicate that the product is of low quality. The Gap has built a reputation for themselves over the years. There was a Gap store at my local mall, but it has since relocated, and closed for those that pay attention.  The store was reopened at the local outlet mall, but it is a Gap Factory store now. The clothing is still stylish. The seams do not fall apart when pulled so the quality is decent. There is pretty much always a sale going on or a deal to be had there so finding something to buy is easy. Sounds like a win-win unless you're actually looking for true Gap merchandise because you won't find it. There IS a difference.  Gap Factory is an entirely different store that carries made-for-outlet items at a lower price. The same business model applies to Coach and Coach Factory stores.  The majority of Coach outlet merchandise is made for the Coach outlets. If you go to a Coach store, the quality is better and the products carried are different; the products carried are the true Coach products they created to exemplify their identity as a brand.  The deal you find in some outlets  aren't that great of a deal when you really discover that what you're buying is made differently than the original store's products are and meant to be sold under the guise of affordability for such a reputable product. It's like retail trickery and so many retailers do it.

Does any of this even matter? Apparently not to consumers. An outlet shopper recognises a brand name, knows they are a more expensive or higher-quality product, sees the price, and snaps up the bargains before their head can stop their heart from opening their wallet. Today's outlet malls are not the outlets of the past.  Outlet stores first appeared in New England in the 1920's, when fabric mills attached shops to their manufacturing plants. Later the idea spread to the sewing plants of the Southeast. The success of these stores led to the birth of outlet centersin the 1970's, starting with Reading, Pa. In the 1980's, outlet megamalls opened in not-quite-out-of-the-way places and began attracting famous designers like Liz Claiborne, Anne Klein and Ralph Lauren who had previously resisted the trend. These served asanchors-- drawing cards -- for off-price malls. Outlet malls have become a place for retailers to no longer sell off excess or damaged goods, but to sell more product deliberately designed and manufactured to sell at an lesser price and appeal to a demographic that may not have been able to afford the brand's normal lines of merchandise.

Outlet and discount retailers also deliberately play on people's emotions and their psyche; they get your head and your heart all at one time by using the combination of name and affordable price points. You're defenceless!! According to the book Cheap by Ellen Ruppel Shell anticipation and dread are two feelings that play a huge part in the process of purchasing. When someone heads out to shop at an outlet they anticipate finding good deals and if they come across one and aren't sure if they should buy or not dreading the regret of not buying outweighs the necessity of the item its' self; "…retailers work hard to frame prices as a good deal even when they are an ordinary deal -- or no deal at all. The thrill of anticipation is often all it takes to block out any negative feelings about the transaction… Scientists have found the evidence to prove it."  WHAT?! Yes, that's right. From the moment you buckle your seat belt and and head on out your brain is already working on your emotions and creating feelings and ideas about shopping before you even see those shoes.

And people, us, the masses, can't even be faulted for being duped. We're bombarded by the impression of good deals and prompted to buy more more more, even when we don't need it. Things, anything, flashlights, t-shirts, tool boxes, ceiling fans, anything you can think of is made to be as affordable as possible so that people will purchase them.  The price is just perfect for the item and that is no coincidence.  According to Shell, a price that is too low can signal low quality and/or product deficiency but a motivated buyer, when faced with a price they deem appropriate for the item, will most likely purchase despite of any flaws, perceived or real: "A discount is often interpreted as a negative signal unless it is countered by a signal of quality, such as a celebrity endorsement or a designer label…" The retailers mission is to not produce quality per se, but to associate the brand with quality in the consumers mind. Where does someone go if they want to spend money on something of quality and built to last? Do you really 'get what you pay for'?

The value of a dollar is subjective to everyone who has to decide how to spend their money.  If someone is OK with spending $3 on a tank top (I'm totally guilty of this) then why bother telling them  'I told you so' when the strap falls off after the first wash (thank you Forever 21) that they wasted their money. (You KNOW I sewed that strap back on.) It is up to the individual to decide how and on what they will spend their money but educating ones self before buying about the choices that are out there is the best way people can decide what is right for them.  I shop at Gap Factory all the time for my 10 month old son because he doesn't need true Gap at his age (or for a long time for that matter), the clothing is cute and the quality is there for the short time he wears anything before growing out of it is considered. Personally, I'm addicted to Gap Factory for my son. I know exactly what I'm buying and could care less if it's not true Gap… the price of Gap baby clothes is insane! I do not shop there for myself or my husband however and I am so picky about where we purchase our clothing because I don't want to spend money on the things I buy that I need to last and have them fall apart after a year or so. (That Forever 21 tank top is not exemplary of this stated opinion for the record.) And for what it's worth I LOVE outlet shopping and shop at a near-by outlet mall all the time. Yes I know what I'm buying, at least I try my hardest to educate myself to know what I'm buying, and hopefully this article will help inform you too.  There's nothing wrong with fast fashion or a "Factory" good vs. the original as long as you know what you're buying. If you don't "Buyer Beware".

Toodles,
Jessica

More posts to come as I read my way through Shell's super-interesting book. :)

Classic Series - Clothing

This is probably the last in my series for classics, and certainly the most subjective one.  Clothing. Everyone has different senses of style, body shapes, and favoured silhouettes so how can one person possibly say what articles of clothing everyone should have? I read Nina Garcia's book The One Hundred and it has guided me to learning which pieces of clothing that I really do need to have in my wardrobe and which ones just don't fit my aesthetic.  I also think that age has some influence on what articles of clothing one should own, as well as what one does for a living and in their spare time. Deciding what are classics, to me, is easier the more general the guidelines are kept, and that is exactly what you will find here; very general guidelines to things that I feel the majority of women should own and why I find them useful.

Like as we grow, I will start from the bottom up.

Bottoms

Jogging Pants

Takina Sweatpant

You need jogging pants. How one lives a life without jogging pants is completely 100% beyond my comprehension for one reason and one reason only: you are allowed to be seen in public in comfy jogging pants.  You should not be seen in public in your pajama pants, however, because it is lazy and ugly regardless of how cute the pink sparkly plaid is; thusly the need for jogging pants arises.  I actually sub-divide my joggers into home and away so that I'm never caught at the grocery store in paint smeared pants looking like a bum.  All you need is one "nice" pair when you run out for milk so go to H&M and spend $30 and you're set.






Jeans

Citizens of Humanity Racer

Obviously.  Buy the fit and style that suits you best and don't worry about what the current trends are or brand name.  Trends can make it hard to find what you're looking for but don't give up.  Try on try on try on until you get it right and find the magical pair  Then buy 10.  Don't buy jeans online; it's so tempting but don't do it because you're mostly likely just wasting your time, especially if it's a brand you're not familiar with or aren't sure of/in between sizes.





Trousers

Evan Wide Leg Pant

Everyone needs well made, well fitting dress trousers at some point in life regardless of how one dresses daily.  Certain occasions such as brunches, showers, religious events, etc. require dressy-ness when attending them, so I recommend a pair of black and a pair of cream to start with. Navy blue and white are a welcome addition and are hard to find for women, so if you come across a pair, snap them up and you won't be sorry.

White is really the only colour I don't recommend wearing in winter because it is so bright, but black, navy, and cream are season-less; your fabric choice is what will dictate what season is appropriate for them to be worn.  For the white and cream trousers, a lining is ideal.  Any decent pair of winter trousers, regardless of colour, will have at least a partial lining in them.

When purchasing dress trousers make sure that the length is long enough, or can be altered so, to be worn with the shoes you will wear them with.  If it's 4" heels, take those shoes shopping with you so you don't waste money on looking like you're anticipating a flood.

My experiences regarding fabric is that dress trousers made of cotton never work out that well. Dark colours fade easily and the fabric it's self can and may shrink therefore ruining your fit altogether.  Also, if it is cotton without any stretch, once you've been wearing them for a few hours sitting and standing you will look like a creased mess. Wool for winter is great and a blend for warmer weather is ideal.

Shorts

Steph Stripe Short

Shorts are such a necessity. I went years without wearing them, I swear almost my entire 20's which is totally insane, but I came back to them with open arms.  Shorts are great because they come in styles that range from casual to dressy and can be worn many different ways.  Having pairs of shorts that are the same as the three styles of pants listed above are necessary for any wardrobe; denim shorts, a sporty/casual pair, and a dressy pair (a cuff is a nice touch here); all will serve you very well in the heat of summer and/or on vacation.

The only drawback to shorts is that they may not be accepted as office attire regardless of the length, in conservative environments and their casual feel is not dressy enough for most religious events.  Aside from this, having a few different pairs in your wardrobe will be of use for so many events that shorts are worth owning.  Denim can be dressed down with a t-shirt and flat sandals or dressed up with a blouse and heels; dress shorts can be toned down for day time with a tank and dressed up at night with a blouse and blazer.  If your thighs aren't your favourite part of your body opt for knee length or capri pants.  Also regarding length, your shorts should NOT show any bum cheek. Ever.

Pencil Skirt

Kelly Skirt

This style of skirt is classic, streamlined, versatile, suits many different body types, and the occasions in which it will provide wear are numerous.  A pencil skirt is cut to hug the shape of a woman's lower half  (hug not suffocate) which makes it streamlined, and the less embellishment and pattern the more versatile the skirt is for wardrobe building. A black one, and a lighter one in grey or cream, will serve you very well. Once the basics are covered, pencil skirts seasonly come in whatever patterns are trendy, or with embellishments such as sequins or embroidery, or in bright solid colours. The style of this skirt can suit many different body types from boy-ish framed to curvy as long as it is altered to fit properly.  If the cut of a pencil skirt is one that doesn't suit you, say for example you feel uncomfortable about your midsection in such a streamlined shape, wear a loose fitting blouse or sweater with this style or go for a high-waisted looser cut A-line instead.

Fancy Pants and Fancy Skirts

Samantha Leather Track Pant

Nicolette Skirt

These are fun pants and skirts, ones with colour, pattern, sparkle, whatever your little heart desires. These are going out items, not for work or errand running or soccer practise with your kids. Purchase one of each and make sure when you buy them they truly make you happy and excited to wear them and then you will pull them out of your closet any chance you get instead of wondering what you're going to
wear.  I suggest spending a decent amount of money here (maybe $100-$200, or more if you can afford to do so) to ensure fit and embellishment are done well. Leather and beading are great options for this category.

Half Way/All The Way

Dresses

A woman needs a dress. In fact she needs several types of dresses for the several types of occasions that arise in life in which a dress is not only appropriate but maybe even exciting. A woman needs: an evening gown, a cocktail dress, a work-appropriate dress, and a casual summer/vacation dress.

Alessandra Maxi Dress

Evening gowns are one of those wardrobe items that don't get worn often but when you need one, there's no substitute (except a tuxedo, and if you're a woman and you've taken the time and effort to own a tuxedo, you damn well better own an evening gown too!). The style, cut, fit, colour, etc., are all up to you, but if you only do own one don't buy anything too trendy as it will date your look quite quickly.  I recommend staying away from light colours such as white and cream, blush pinks, and pale nudes because if you wear your gown to a wedding all of these colours will be too close to the brides' white gown. Those are feet you do not want to be stepping on that day.  Trust me.  Evening gowns are expensive as is so no sense wasting money on something you won't get much wear out of. I've read to stay away from black but that's just malarky to me. Jewel tones are beautiful in the winter months and with tanned summer skin so they are a good idea to try. Brights should be saved for warm months, but metallics are another season-less option.

Karena One Shoulder Dress

Cocktail dresses are necessary because they can be worn to have cocktails with friends, on dates, to holiday parties and casual evening weddings, just to name a few. This is where 'The Little Black Dress' usually falls, but aside from that wardrobe item, cocktail dresses should be fun and a little fancy. Buy what you like, just make sure your bum is covered.

Lizeth Dress

Work-apprpriate dresses come in many different styles: shift, sheath, A-line, and wrap. To me, you should really have all of these in your wardrobe because they are all different fits, styles, and typically made of different fabrics from one another.
Shifts will skim the body in a medium to heavy weight fabric in an A shape or a straight line and can run sleeveless to full sleeved and anywhere in between.
A sheath is typically made of a medium weight fabric cut to hug your curves more than a shift, and is typically sleeveless or with cap sleeves.
An A-line has more flare from the waist down than a shift does and is excellent for figure flattering and hiding trouble areas such as the tummy, derriere, or thighs.  An A-line dress is made from many types of fabric so purchase based on how it looks on you.
A wrap dress is made of light weight drapey fabric, always has a v-neck, and almost always has sleeves. A wrap will fit around the waist where it is tied and flare out from there down and is a very figure flattering and slimming style of dress.
All four of these styles of dresses are infinitely useful, classic, and will make you feel confident and put-together any time they are worn.  Buy what you like and what suits you in terms of colour and pattern; these types of dresses can cost well under $100 each so having a few in your wardrobe won't break the bank.

Summer/Vacation Dress

Cassidy Pleated Maxi Dress

This dress can be whatever makes you feel comfortable and cool. Maxi, midi, short, knee-length, strapless, tank, backless, whatever you like. A dose of colour and/or pattern is ideal, and finding a style that you can dress up or down will add to the versatility of your dress. Just keep in mind that the more skin you're showing, the less appropriate for day wear the dress becomes.







Top Half

Sweaters

Darti Cashmere Sweater

For when it's cold outside, or inside. They come in endless colours, fabric weights, styles, etc. so find out what you like and start there. Turtlenecks can be bothersome around the neck and aren't for everyone. Perhaps the preppy style of a cardigan isn't for you and you prefer the bohemian look of a floor length duster instead. I recommend trying on sweaters before buying them and thinking of items you already own to wear them with; I say this based on the experience of donating endless sweaters over the years because they ended up not being what I wore repeatedly.  If you choose to buy inexpensive sweaters make sure the fabric is thick enough to trick people into thinking you paid more. Cashmere will cost you but won't disappoint you either. If you're into comfort, don't buy wool or wool blends because it's picky. If you're buying the sweater to wear solo (as opposed to a layering piece like a cardigan or duster), don't buy anything that is too tight because it won't keep you warm.  Be trendy with inexpensive pieces but that black v-neck should be quality.

Blouses

Briana Silk Top

I like blouses; they are feminine, comfortable, light weight, and best of all not tight-fitting. A pretty, colourful, sparkley blouse will get so much attention from you that you'll wonder what you did before you had it.  Dinners, holidays, brunches, showers, under a blazer for work, even over jeans with some flats for a casual weekend lunch date, blouses are so necessary in a well-cultivated wardrobe. You don't need 20 of them, 3-4 is good enough (get a black and a white one out of the way then have fun with the others, colour, pattern, etc). Simple ones can be dressed up with accessories and statement ones are perfect on their own. The more expensive the blouse, the more high maintenance the fabric will become, most likely silk which you much dry clean.  If you don't think you can handle that commitment, find a box of Dryel or just don't spend that much on this article of clothing. Blouses can be found at all price points, and besides, the more trendy the item the less I think you should spend anyways.

Collard Shirt

Kefita Silk Shirt

So conservative, yet so professional and understated and necessary.  You should have three of these, a black, white, and a blue. These three colours will go with everything and for many occasions find themselves of use to you.  Now to me, this style of shirt is for my working hours and you won't find me in one outside of my place of employment. For those who are classic 24/7 not just 9-5, this style of shirt is for you and should be of quality. Brook Brothers is the first to come to mind as they do them well, but so do many, many others and at many, many price points. Again, go with what you can afford, but you don't need to break the bank to incorporate these standbys into your wardrobe, especially if you don't wear them often. Here, the fit is what makes them look sharp. One word: TAILOR.

Tank/Layering Pieces

Marcy Tank

When I was little my Mum used to make me wear undershirts under my sweaters in the winter months and I hated it. But Mum knew what was up, because layering keeps you warm. As an adult, there are probably only three months out of the year that I don't wear some type of tank underneath my clothes, mostly because I'm always cold, but also because they keep covered what should be covered (no peeking down my shirts!) and keep my clothing more clean and less in need of laundering so frequently. I buy my tanks at Forever 21 because they are literally $2.00. I have 20 of them and I wear them constantly. You don't have to go this cheap, but whatever you purchase make sure they fit and are comfortable and breathable. Having black and nude will be invaluable to you.

T-Shirt

Sunny Tee

You just need t-shirts. What else do you wear with your jogging pants? Okay, okay, and jeans. And shorts.
Buy what you like. If you're over 25 stay away from shirts that say things like "#selfie".  That's all I've got.

Zip-Up Hoodie
See above.

Sumer Cashmere Hoodie

A word about fit.

Stacy London says, "If you don't have fit you don't have style" and goodness is she right. When your clothes don't fit you properly you look like either a slob-kabob or a sausage; clothing that is too large looks messy/rumpled/baggy and can actually make you look bigger, and clothing that is too small can look tight/stretched/bulging and uncomfortable because you have to constantly tug it back into place. None of these are good looks, so, when shopping for clothing takes a dive into the trash bin and makes you feel like there's something wrong with you because nothing fits "off-the-rack" take relief in knowing it's not you it's the clothes. YOU are just perfect with whatever shape you have and THOSE CLOTHES can be cut, stitched, shortened, whatever to fit you PERFECTLY.  You just need to find a tailor! Buy your clothes to fit your largest part: shoulders, bust, derriere, thighs, and then where there are gaps or extra length, etc., you just have that nipped and tucked to fit you just right.  This information is nothing new but I feel as though I should throw it out there. Sizes on clothing can make people just feel crummy sometimes, men and women alike too, but the numerical size doesn't matter. No one is a perfect size 6 anyways, except the mannequin in the display case.

Right?


TTFN,
Jessica

All photos are from Club Monaco. This post IS NOT sponsored by Club Monaco because they don't even know this blog exists. Some of the price points of their clothing is higher than other stores that i mention because the quality is different. I just love CM and have since high school, and I appreciate that one brand offers so many useful articles of clothing.

Be Respectful.

Classic Series - Shoes

Ahhh shoes. Those little things that have the super strength to ruin my credit score while simultaneously making me feel special and fancy and just plain happy.  Personally there is just nothing like a new pair of heels to make me grin ear to ear, and there are so many women out there that would agree.  Shoes fit all the time, their size doesn't make you feel like eating lettuce, they are a way to get noticed, they polish an outfit, and add some personality to your look.  There are certain types of shoes that you need in your shoe wardrobe because they are insanely useful and will pair with anything in their realm of use without much thought. These shoes you need. Boots are dependant on your climate but unless you live in Brazil you probably could use one or two pairs of those anyways. Read on for what I feel are classic styles of both shoes, sandals, and boots; styles that I feel will never fail you when you need them most, in a rush, packing for vacation, or stocking your closet with items that will serve you well and aren't a waste of your hard earned money. And, as always with classics, spend as much as you can afford and be content with that.

SHOES

Black and Nude Pumps

Duh. 

These two are a no-brainer. They go with everything and you will get miles of wear out of a good quality pair. Buy the best quality you can afford when purchasing these two because you need the shoe to last through repeated wear. The most classically shaped pump has a pointed toe to a softly rounded-out pointed toe with a three to four inch heel height. You can walk in three inches, yes you can. Unless you are 75 or arthritic try for heaven's sake.  You won't fall, you're not drunk (unless you are) and you're not on a tight rope.  A three inch heel is not too high, and the look you will get with a shoe of this height will make you look sophisticated, put together, and like you tried.  This heel height isn't too tall to make you wobble, fall down, or look unproportioned either.  When purchasing this style of shoe avoid a platform. The absence of a platform gives your foot direct contact with the ground beneath you, adding to your ability to walk more confidently because you can actually feel where you are stepping. Having a platform also takes away from the classic style of this type of pump because the popularity of having a platform shoe comes and goes.  Atlantic-Pacific Princess Kate Cameron Diaz

Sneaker

Your weekend go-to.  NOT a running shoe, totally different. Running shoes are for running and the gym where as sneakers are casual lace-up shoes constructed of canvas, leather,  rubber or a combo of the three.  They are perfect for being on your feet all day and have a street-style cool vibe to them, especially when paired with something unexpected like a sequin tank or tee, a moto jacket, a midi skirt, or cargo pants.  A crisp white pair also look totally stylish when paired with a crisp white shirt and perfectly fitting jeans.  See where this is going?? Versatility. And when you can fetch a sneaker for $80 or less you're talking big time bang for your buck versatility.  Need some sneaker inspiration?
Sincerely Jules and Man Repeller

Ballet Flat

This style of shoe came back with a vengeance about 5-7 years ago and for good reason. They are comfortable, easy on/easy off, can be preppy when in solid colours and adorned with a bow, or can be edgy if embellished or patterned that way. Simple styles add a bit of Audrey (read: classic) to any outfit. Any die-hard shopper, busy mom, or city commuter needs a pair of these shoes; everyone else should just want to have a pair anyways.  Need some flat inspiration? Olivia Palermo here, here, and here. (She does flats very well)

Evening Shoe

Evening shoes makes me feel like a 5 year old in Toys R Us, meaning they make me feel like bursting with joy. They excite me with their beauty, colour, sparkle, and fanciness.  Most little girls loved to play dress up and I was no exception, and the fancier the better.  Every woman needs a pair of black evening shoes, and from there a black evening sandal. Once those are covered, may I suggest buying a pair with a little dazzle, to which metallic would be the perfect choice. Be careful with metallics as when they are done poorly they look cheap and misplaced against the elegance of an evening gown. Metallics don't have to include sparkles either, and gold will never let you down. Check out Beyonce here and here.   Evening shoes won't be worn as frequently as the other types in your shoe wardrobe but when you need them, there is no substitute for a good pair so purchase wisely and you won't end up wasting your money on a trendy pair that are more flash (in the pan) than class. Need some evening inspiration? Check out Blake Lively here and here, Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen and Gisele Bundchen. (Also click here, here, and here for some don'ts because of the platform)

SANDALS

Flat Sandals

Inconceiveable that someone may not have flat sandals. Kim Kardashian has flat sandals. Flat sandals, NOT flip flops; those don't count. Flat sandals that have straps and some type of closure to keep them on your feet. Perfect for a day of riding roller coasters, outdoor concerts, or basically anything in the summer that you can possibly think of.  Go for a simple pair, nude or black with little embellishment, to make sure you have a workhorse in your shoe wardrobe, but from there all is fair in love and flat sandal heaven. Every colour, embellishment, number or straps, buckles, spikes, whatever your little heart desires anything goes with these sandals. You can pick them up for a deal or spend a lot, depending on your budget but the crazier the style of sandal, the less I recommend you spend. Save your bucks for the simplistic pair that you will wear for several seasons; that's the point of a classic. Need some flat sandal inspiration? Sincerely Jules has plenty.

Minimalist Ankle Strap Sandal

This style of a sandal can be worn with outfits that range from casual jeans to formal floor length gowns. These sandals, when chosen in a nude that matches your skin tone as closely as possible, will practically disappear into your skin, lengthen your legs, add height to your frame, and can be paired with any colour for a chic look.  This sandal is a must have in your shoe wardrobe as long as the style of it is kept as minimal as possible; forgo embellishment of any kind and limit the number of straps to two, one at your toes and one around the ankle. Make sure the heel is on the thin side, nothing chunky, as the point is to look streamlined.  This is not a statement making shoe, this is a shoe meant to disappear, like a wallflower, in comparison to the rest of your outfit. These sandals in black provide just the same amount of frequent usage opportunities except are noticeable against the skin. I had a pair of black ones years ago and wore them to death, they literally fell apart from wear.  I cannot say enough how much use you will get out of these.  Need some sandal inspiration?  Kim Kardashian Blake Lively Jennifer Aniston Song of Style

The Wedge

Ahhh, the wedge. My very favourite sandal (and boot) type because of their versatility and comfort. Wedges are appropriate during the day and can transition into evening very easily with the right ensemble.  Wedges also have a casual vibe to them so they can tone down a sexy look if necessary and pair well with dresses, shorts, skirts, all styles of jeans, and wide legged or flared pants of all types. The only type of look that I don't recommend a wedge to be paired with is conservative office wear, unless the wedge shoe is closed toe and sleek in style and construction with little to no platform (example here).  Wedges are the most comfortable of all elevated shoe types because they have a lot of support, and often come with some type of platform which helps cushion the ball of your foot when you walk. A neutral wedge in your shoe wardrobe will prove to be a very useful shoe; a perfect example of the versatility would be an outdoor wedding -- wedges don't sink into grass and, because they are so comfortable, can be worn for longer periods of time without killing your feet.  Need some wedge inspiration? Chiara Ferragni/The Blond Salad Jennifer Aniston

BOOTS

Dress Boot

The most versatile, biggest bang for your buck dress-boot is a black wedge knee high boot.  What you're looking for when selecting a boot of this style to purchase is a sleek wedge three to four inches high, with little to, preferably, no platform in black leather with a pointed to softly rounded out point toe and a zip closure (no pull ons). This boot with work over any skinny cut pant, under any boot cut or larger pant, and with skirts of all lengths.  The wedge is preferable to a heel because they are so much easier to walk in and keeping your balance when faced with snow and inclement weather. Need some boot inspiration? Here here and here.  (P.S. black wedge knee boots without a platform are very hard to find; I blame it on the current popularity of ankle boots and booties.) 

Ankle Boot

This little boot is a good style to add to your collection of footwear because you will get a lot of use out of it.  Ankle boots come in many styles, from casual to dressy, and can be worn for a night out with friends to errand running.  Ankle boots work well over a skinny cut pant, a boot cut or larger pant, as well as with opaque tights of the same colour when paired with a skirt or dress, making them very versatile.  Going for a more fun look with this boot is a good idea because they are not your everyday dress boot.  Some embellishments or colour will add a touch of your own person style. Need some ankle inspiration? Man Repeller and Sincerely Jules can help.

Snow Boot/Cold Weather Boot

One of the warmest boots out there are Uggs. Short for ugly or not, these boots are well made and are very warm.  If they are sprayed with a protectant after purchasing and the now brushed off them after wearing they will last for years and are completely worth the cost. Another classic choice are Sorel boots. Sorels are made of rubber so clearly they are durable and waterproof, and they are lined to keep your feet warm and dry. Snow boots are clearly not dressy in any way; these type of boots are made for casual errand running, snow shovelling, tobogganing, going to and from work, etc.  Snow boots are made to work.  If you need a boot to battle the snow, don't cheap out. Spend the money on quality boots and they will last you for years and function as they are supposed to: by keeping your feet dry and warm.  Need some boot inspiration? Man Repeller (appreciate the humour)

All above pictures are my own. From top to bottom: Aldo suede pumps, Tory Burch flats, Aldo black flowered evening shoe, Sam Edelman gold sandal, Ash crystal skull flat sandal, Steve Madden nude ankle strap sandal, Christian Louboutin espadrille wedge, Aldo black embellished booties, tall Uggs.  I have yet to acquire sneakers as I am not a sneaker person, but Superga's will be on the way this spring. I have yet to also acquire wedge boots, but I am always on the lookout for a pair and one day the perfect pair and I shall meet.

Enjoy, and thank you for stopping by :)
Jessica

Always and Never

There are things in life that people should try to always and never do and manners applies to both.  Having manners and showing respect to others ultimately says that you care enough to present yourself well, thusly manners are very much integral to your bella figura.  Presenting yourself as a lady or gentleman seems almost lost in today's world; almost like people don't have the extra time to be nice or considerate.  Manners don't take much, just a little thought and practise, until they become habit and don't require any thought at all because they flow naturally.

Whilst reading a few etiquette books, I started thinking about what I consider to be things people should always or never do.  Several of them centred around the dining table, a place ripe with chances to be gross, as well as some things that I think are just little reminders for life in general.  So, the Always and the Never are subdivided into 'At the Table' and 'Life'.  If I've missed anything let me know! Add to my lists, please and thank you.

Ready set.

Always at the Table

Use a napkin.
Push your chair in when exiting the table.
Let someone know when they have food in their teeth. Best if discreet so as to not embarrass.

Always In Life

RSVP
Say please and thank you.
Hold open a door for others.
Let people exit the elevator before getting on.
Remove your shoes when in someone else's home.
Bless someone when they sneeze.
Be on time.
Think before you speak when you're angry.
Try to be a good listener.
Say thank you when complimented. Respond in kind if you're sincere about it.
Treat others the way you want to be treated. Put that good karma out there.

Never at the Table

Chew with your mouth open. It's disgusting.
Talk with your mouth full. It's so disgusting.
Slurp anything. Ever. Soup, coffee, spaghetti. Just don't. EVER.
Allow air to exit your body. Excuse yourself and go to the washroom.
Use your fingers instead of a utensil.
Place your elbows on the table. Arms belong on your lap.

Never In Life

Interrupt someone when they are talking. I know you're excited but just wait your turn.
Show up to someone's home empty handed, especially when invited over for a meal. Wine, flowers, a small appetizer, chocolates, something for the host as a thank-you.
Eat while talking on the phone. Especially while conducting business.
Use your cell phone while having a face-to-face conversation with someone. This behaviour blatantly tells the other person you're not interested in them, and that you're a jerk. The only exception is Googling something that adds to your discussion.
Be deliberately mean or rude. Take the high road, always.

Hope you enjoyed. Thank you for stopping by!
Jessica :)

The Sartorialist Knows

Scott Schuman, The Sartorialist, is someone that I love to follow on Instagram. He is so talented at capturing details that are easily overlooked in the everyday.  Yesterday he posted the above picture and as soon as I saw it and read his description I knew that it was such a perfect example of 'Bella Figura'.  The photo is a testament to Schumans' keen eye that has made him the popular photographer he is today.  He appreciated the extra effort that some Italians go to when presenting something as commonplace as a cup of coffee because they did so beautifully.  Something that is ordinary can still be elegant or make someone feel special when a desire to present yourself or your wares in the best possible way is important to you. Live bella figura; always.

Ciao!
Jessica

How Much??

        Photo Credit: Nick Ares Flickr

When talking dollars and clothing, you get what you pay for. I think that good quality clothing and accessories are worth their cost, and I also think there is a place for fast-fashion and inexpensive clothing and accessories as well.  

I am currently reading Style Clinic by Paula Reed, a book I feel is worth purchasing in paper format versus electronic as referencing is so much easier that way, and amongst its' pages she discusses how to shop during a sale. She asks her reader to question a potential 'on sale' purchase by having them decide whether they would buy the sale item for full price or not. If the answer is yes then the find is the epitome of sale shopping good luck; if the answer is no, then put that item back and keep looking because it is not something you truly love, want, or need. Buying something because it is only $20 or because it's designer for only $200 are not reasons to purchase anything.  A reason to purchase something is because you have consciously decided it's an item your closet needs, and the two reasons previously listed are a bonus.  Realizing the differences here is a big deal, at least it is for me. I am so guilty of buying things because of the label inside and the fact that is was on sale, instead of actually needing it and then proceeding to hunt it down and finding a sale price.  Many of my decisions to not purchase something I've found and loved have been made because of a high price tag, and every time I decided not to purchase I've regretted it. Case-in-point: a pair of patent leather bright pink pumps by Alexander McQueen I found at Neiman Marcus Last Call (my favourite store on EARTH). Say they were half off the original price for the sake of the story, i didn't purchase them, I thought $300 was too much. Mr. McQueen passed away the very next day and, aside from missing out on owning a flawless pair of colourful pumps, I missed out on owning something created by him while he was alive.   Moral of the story, don't let something you love pass you by when you see it.  Buy it.  If you're on a budget for your shopping that day, put something else back to afford the item that you love (more useful advice from Paula). 

I got to thinking about how much I would spend on something and I realized I'm cheap. There are several types of clothing that I just can't rationalize spending a lot of money on, such as underwear, socks, t-shirts, exercise clothing, the majority of fun accessories, the bulk of casual wear like leggings, day dresses, and tunics, and even jeans.  I think the ability to spend a lot of money on clothing comes from a desire to have a particular label on a garment, whether you admit it to yourself or not.  This post is pretty much my opinion on amounts to spend on things, and is very loosely tied to my series on classics, as I see those items as things worth spending more on.  However, there's nothing I love more than a good bargain, so that $700 wool coat better be on sale dammit.  

Here we go.

Underneath

I don't see the point of expensive underwear. Underwear get dirty, so, this may be a place to save. Also, I include lingerie in this category as well because that stuff doesn't stay on long so I don't get the point of spending a lot of money.  The only exception is a properly fitting bra, especially for those with a large chest. Socks are a dicey one because sometimes a sock is meant to do something specific, like absorb sweat when you're running 5K, and the ones that do this well are AWESOME.  Monday to Friday trouser socks and sweat socks on a Sunday can be shamelessly inexpensive.  Same goes for nylons, the less the better. Pyjamas also equal save.  

The Upper Half

I think t-shirts should cost $20 or less, and any more than $50 and you're crazy. Ever hear that Macklemore song? "…you're getting tricked by business…"  Same thing for tank tops.  Polos no more than $80.  If they are vibrantly coloured you want them to stay that way so buy the brand name.  Blouses, $100 or less, depending on the fabric.  Sweaters, $150 for the same reason.  And yes you can find cashmere for $150. Shop the sales.  

Jackets are not investment pieces. They are worn in milder weather than winter coats and often can be used when layering so don't bother spending more than $40-$80 on a jacket. The only exception here is when one is made out of leather. Leather or suede will set you back, but no more than $250 max. Wait for a sale.

Coats are another item that will set you back a bit of money.  Spending over $1000 on a good quality coat is not necessary and this sum will cover wool dress coats for winter, trenches, and casual puffer coats, all of excellent quality with cash to spare, unless you're purchasing designer items.  

The Bottom Half

Jeans.  If you find a pair that make your derrière look like it can bounce quarters buy them whatever the price.  DO NOT buy them because of the label first and fit second because then you're wasting your own money.  Jeans are a heartbreaker for women, they can let us feel very bad about ourselves. All brands fit differently. Don't look at the size as being a skinny or fat indicator, the only thing it's there for is to guide you to what fits you best from brand to brand.  Just because you're a 4 in one pair and an 8 in another doesn't mean you ballooned up 4 sizes.  Jeans can be their own post altogether, but bottom line is if you find what makes you feel good lookin', buy it.

Trousers.  Finding an incredible pair of dress trousers for $200 or less is completely possible and should be done.  Alternatively, when looking for a perfect fitting pair of trousers, do not opt for the $60 pair; they won't fit you like a $200 pair because the cut and craftsmanship won't be as meticulous, and the fabric won't be as good of quality.  Also, with a more expensive pair of trousers you'll probably find that they are lined which adds to the durability and look of the pant.  Trousers, especially black ones, are a staple and quality counts, so spend some jake.  Business casual pants, a.k.a. khakis, should never cost more than $50. These pants are hideous anyways, don't spend a lot money. 

Skirts.  This item cost depends on the function. If it is a black pencil skirt then $150 on this item is worth it as it will get miles of wear, and that is a ton of money for a skirt. A flowy peasant maxi skirt for Saturdays at the market, then $40 max.  Generally speaking, I would not spend a lot of money on skirts as you get less wear out of them than you do pants. 

Shoes.  I don't believe in cheap shoes, and by cheap I mean $100 or less, unless it's a shoe that has a sale price below $100. For the record, I don't mean $100 flip flops either, I'm talking pumps, evening sandals, wedges, etc.  Shoes take a beating and, unless you're into throwing away money, buying quality in this category is really worth it.  You'll get real leather or suede, quality craftsmanship, good stitching, quality soles that won't fall or peel off.  Boots are even more expensive when you're buying quality and I would say go no less than $250 for the same reasons as shoes.  If you have lots of money to spend on designer shoes then there is no ceiling to your spending, but a good pump should cost no more than $400, and boots no more than $500.  Sneakers, which are completely different from running shoes, should be no more than $80. Running shoes can range and, because they have a function to perform, will cost you at least $150-$200. Spend the money; your knees will thank you.  Flats may be my only exception to the rule here. Unless you live in flats or use them for urban commuting, then don't spend a lot.  A black or nude leather pair, fine $150.  Anything else that is colourful, embellished, or fun, $40. (I learned this lesson the hard way on $100 metallic silver embellished flats that shredded my heels. I no longer own them.)  

Full Body 

Suits are expensive. Well, well designed ones are at least.  Suits are one thing that should require spending some decent money on, as a cheap suit just looks cheap. The fabric is terrible, the cut is terrible, and therefore the appearance and fit are terrible.  When purchasing a suit, look for natural fabrics such as wool, linen, or cotton and/or blends. Spend $500-$1000, especially for men. Women have other attire options on occasions when men wear suits, so for a woman $500 is plenty.  No more than $1000 is necessary and a fine suit you'll get for that price; that amount is quite the investment.

Dresses are also a garment that have to be considered for their use when spending money on them.  A wrap style dress or A-line shift that flatters the figure and is in a neutral colour will serve you well and $150 is a fair price for this item. Save if it is a casual piece or is something that is trendy. Cheap evening gowns stick out like only cheap evening gowns can, as shiny obnoxious spectacles of cheap satin or spandex, with or without sequins. Ugh.  When shopping for evening or formal wear, buy quality fabric in a shape that fits well, a colour that flatters, and tailor if you must. When dressing in this manner, elegance is your goal so spending at least $300-$400 is completely acceptable.

Exercise clothing. I have to mention this category for two reasons. 1: over-priced athletic gear and 2: it is not casual wear.  If you exercise in any way, you know that you need clothing that performs specific functions like supporting your chest or wicking away sweat or moving with your body without moving out of position. This type of clothing requires spending enough to find what you're looking for and anything above that is a waste of money. $100 on a hoodie is a waste of money. $50 for a sports bra is definitely adequate.  Refer to above on how much to spend on a t-shirt.  If you're purchasing clothing made for exercising so you can run errands comfortably you're just either confused, being lazy, or deliberately inappropriate. Put on jeans and sneakers, not yoga pants and running shoes. You wouldn't go to the opposite end of the spectrum and wear your evening gown to buy groceries would you? If your answer is "No, that would look ridiculous!", well then consider that the opposite may also be true.  That little silver circle on the back of your leg is not meant for the dry cleaners and the drug store, and your face of makeup tells me you didn't just do 60 minutes of spinning and change after.

Casual wear.  Meaning jogging pants and sweatshirts. These should be inexpensive. Sometimes these clothes are meant to leave the house whilst being worn. An acceptable occasion is running to the store for milk. Baby formula. Tylenol. You ran out of flour and are baking 100 cupcakes. So, little life emergencies when the last thing on your mind is your Bella Figura. 

Etc.

Trends. Do not spend a lot on trends; this applies to clothing as well as accessories. Go to Forever 21 or H&M or Asos. Fast fashion stores continue to exist because they carry the latest trends so shop there when this is what you're looking to buy. Trends are meant to come and go and if you're trying something out to see how it looks on you, do not spend a lot of money. Remember, at some point you will probably be getting rid of what ever it is that you're buying, so you have to decide for yourself how much you're willing to basically throw away. 

Accessories

Hats, scarves, gloves, statement necklaces, earrings, bracelets, and clutches. All of these items can be had at very low prices and this is definitely where you can save; $40 or less for costume jewelry and clutches. If you're buying costume jewelry to finish off one specific outfit spend the least amount possible.  If you're buying a fedora to try out the style, save. Scarves and gloves are a save; you can find each for $50 or less.  The only thing I can see spending a lot of money on is purchasing real jewelry or if you're buying a good quality cocktail ring. Clearly real jewelry is expensive and I can't put a price on that for anyone, but a good quality costume cocktail ring can be had for $150.  

So, maybe these figures make me cheap. Frugal. Whatever. I think it's just common sense. Who doesn't love a good sale and who doesn't love NOT wasting money? Hopefully this proves that you don't have to spend a million to look like one, 'cause you don't ya' know. 

Toodles,
Jess